The moment we hear the word "Rape," our society has attuned us into thinking that it’s somewhat a version of the "Beauty and the Beast" gone wrong.
Often we are led to believe that it was the victim who was to be blamed. We ourselves tend to find excuses as to why the perpetrator did what he did – maybe the girl was drunk, maybe she had gone out too late at night, maybe it was the clothes she wore that provoked the attack, maybe it was the company she kept… we all tend to blame the victim, and not the perpetrator.
Despite the increasing instances of crime against women, everyone believes that the women’s fate has improved over the centuries and decades. Instead of jumping to that conclusion, let us first look at the state of a woman in history and contrast it to how things have improved or deteriorated in these recent decades.
Given the fact that we consider ourselves to be ‘modernized,’ women should have been stepping into the 22nd and 23rd centuries already, but sadly we are not even close to getting the same degree of empowerment, the same degree of freedom, the same degree of rights and equality that women in India have enjoyed historically.
Let me elucidate the point by comparing the status of prostitutes in ancient and modern day India. I know this may sound a bit weird, but as the saying goes, “we are as strong as our weakest link,” and no women is more vilified and marginalized than a Prostitute. So let’s compare how prostitutes fared in ancient India and what’s their status today.
In ancient India when "Devadasi" (prostitutes) system existed, they had a place of privilege in the society, they were known to be women of power and were allowed to work for the king and the court, but amazing fact is that they also helped the kings by lending money and helping them in their battles and during the times of economic crises. Today women who work as prostitutes are literally counted as belonging to the lowest rung of the society. I guess this quick comparison of the most marginalized women i.e. prostitutes in modern days with prostitutes in ancient India should be enough to show how the status of women in India has worsened over the centuries.
We often tend to say things like, “past is past,” “old generation is boring,” “old fashioned,” etc… but let me talk some old fashioned sense into you, especially men – how would you feel if what you do to a child/woman, happened to your own family members?
Have you ever thought of the day that when you are molesting a girl, you may have to rush to save your own sister, daughter, wife or mother? or the day when you are enjoying watching someone helpless and naked, someone else may be enjoying watching the women in your family too?
Now I am sure many would get offended, but this is the reality and example perverted men are putting forth for the future generations to follow. You may think I am generalizing, but consider these…
- When you can get drunk and can grab women at a public place, what are the chances that your family won’t be the next victim?
- When you eve tease, stalk and harass a woman, what are the chances that someone won’t pull your sisters dupatta, and call her Chikni, and relentlessly stalk her?
- When you can kidnap girls and helpless women, what are the chances that someone won’t kidnap and assault your daughter?
Those perverted lot who indulge in such crimes, are often emboldened by people in power like a Chief Minister calling a rape “Sajjano Ghotona”… like a Home Minister saying “such things happen during New Year”… like a Member of Parliament saying “those women who wear skimpy clothes are asking for it.”
It is people like these who allow for rapes, molestations, sexual assaults and sexual harassment of women to continue blatantly.
What should be done?
I believe nothing in this country is above God and law. Whenever there is a debate about whom I would hold responsible and how can we prevent such assaults from happening?
There is only one answer to it and that's "LAW" and the sad fact is the LAW in our country is in Tatters.
Most of our criminal codes are derived from the times of the British and were made during the 18th and the 19th centuries. Take for example the most fundamental code of law dealing with crimes in India – the Indian Penal Code. This IPC was enacted in 1860, and even though there have been occasional amendments to the act, in nature and essence, it has remained what and how the British had developed it – regressive and outdated.
How can the crimes of 21st century be judged through the lenses of laws that were written in 1800s?
Moreover the way our entire judicial system is based, it takes decades for a case to come to trail and for a judgment to be handed out. God forbid if the perpetrator happens to be from a rich or powerful family, the chances that he will ever face charges are minimal. If somehow the case reaches the courts, then the victim is more vilified by the society, than the perpetrator.
All of these together makes ours one of the most regressive nations on the planet.
Out of every 100 cases of rapes registered the conviction rate i.e. the number of people who actually are sent to jail stands at around 24%. The conviction rates were 44.3 percent in 1973, 37.7 percent in 1983, 26.9 percent in 2009, 26.6 percent in 2010 and 26.4 percent in 2011. With each decade, and each passing year the rate of conviction has continued to fall, and that is very scary.
We as a country have to reckon with the fact that if we do not take a stand against this ever-deteriorating law and order situation and increasing crime against women, a day may soon come when raping and sexually assaulting women would be legalized.
So take a stand, speak out.
Written by Krishty Chettri from Siliguri who is studying Law in Bangalore.
In pic: Three accused in Bangalore woman sexual assault case from the left: Leno, Somashekar and Sudesh